I received a wonderful book for Christmas. It's called "The 52 Lists Project" by Moorea Seal. Seal is an example (for me, anyway) of a person who is achieving her dreams by taking advantage of today's technology. Not that she wouldn't have achieved them without technology, but the Big T provided a platform to display her talents to a wider audience, and she has grabbed hold. Her bio tells us that she is: A retailer, a designer, and an online curator. She has a fashion and lifestyle brand called Moorea Seal, from which she contributes seven per cent of proceeds to non-profits. I noted it is 7% of proceeds. Not 7% of profits. I like that.
But, back to her book. It is, per the title, a nicely designed book of illustrations, brief instructions and empty lines perfectly spaced for 52 lists--one for each week of the year. I love lists. I have lists all over the house and cannot begin a project without a list. If I don't have a list I lose my way. Which may be why a rather large writing project I'm involved with has been such a bugger. I didn't make a list. I thought it would fall into place, but it hasn't. Obviously, I made a mistake by not being true to myself. Right now I feel that I should stop writing this essay and make the damned list because I don't want my big project to turn out as a half-done piece of work laid on the guest room bed with the thirty never-finished, half-done pieces of work that didn't come to fruition because I didn't have a list. Thank you. I'm done now.
LIST ONE:
This list, designed for the first week of the year, requested that I list my goals and dreams for 2016. It didn't demand resolutions. It asked for goals and dreams. That, in itself, put me a little off-balance. At 71, do I even have goals and dreams? Of course I do. Everyone has goals and dreams, but people like me misplace them under the stack of resolutions. And then, after a few months, they're not just misplaced. They're lost. Probably thrown away in a fit of cleaning, never to be remembered again.
I worked on List One for the entire week. I incorporated it into my early morning routine and determined that I would dig up at least one goal or dream each day. By the end of the week, I had actually created ten goals and/or dreams. Well, really nine...I stretched one into two parts. But still, I was pretty pleased with myself. Goals and dreams are hard. Resolutions are much easier to list--we know our shortcomings even if we don't want to think about them. Goals and dreams aren't nearly so clear-cut. They're our mental stretching exercise, and if you haven't done that for awhile (and I hadn't) you might wake up a bit stiff, sore and scared the next morning. Dreams and goals require action. Often, action we haven't practiced before. At least, not successfully.
I used words in my Goals and Dreams List like "connect," "balance," "relax," "highest and best self," "focus," "authentic," and "challenge." And that's only half the list...
This week--Week Fourteen--I'm required to List the Ways I Can Cleanse My Life For Spring. These lists require more than a little thought for me, and I have grown to love that. For the moment, I'm cleansing my life by cleaning out a few drawers, reviewing my notes from a personal development webinar I attended a couple of years ago, and turning off the TV.
Next week I will be challenged to list my Dream Trips. That will be fairly easy for me. I can remember the best of the best, and research a few more. That's the beauty of the 52 List Project. It's wonderfully balanced between our past and our future, and that's a good place to be. We learn from the one and thus, are able to enrich the other.
Amen.
Loved this post!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much! Do have a wonderful summer...you may be getting out just in time as the temps will be climbing soon. So enjoy you and Tom in the neighborhood.
DeleteI also like her use of "goals and dreams". It softens the intended outcomes, and is gentler than "The Purpose of Your Life, which was a popular theme a few years ago. It looks like you have a long and rewarding process ahead of you!
ReplyDeleteI do have that! Thank you so much for your comments...I always find value in them.
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